Now We Are Complete

Happy Anniversary!

2009-09-15T09:01:00.002-05:00

Sepember 15, 2009. Yesterday was the 2 year anniversary of the first day we held Nicco in our arms. We can both remember it like it just happened. He was so tiny, so beautiful. He had every bit of the fire we see in him today. We are so glad, so blessed you are a part of our family Nic. We all love you!

Nicco's Birthday!!!

2009-08-03T20:18:00.003-05:00

August 3, 2009. Nicco turned two on July 31st. I can hardly believe it, he is growing up so fast. We started our week off with a Birthday party at Chuck E Cheese for all our friends. We had the best time playing all the games and riding all the rides. Chuck E came out and Nicco was happy to give him a big handshake as always. On Friday, Nicco's actual birthday we went to Chuck E cheese with dad and Tony for lunch! We can't seem to get enough of Chuck E lately. Saturday was our big family party and we ended with our now traditional fireworks display. Nicco recieved so many fantastic presents. His all time favorite? A Diego tooth brush! He loves to brush his teeth! Happy Birthday Nicco!!

Mom & Dad's Anniversary!!

2009-07-15T12:31:00.002-05:00

July 15, 2009. Wow! Where has the time gone? I can hardly believe we have been married 7 years today. I had a great morning with a special note from my hubby, what a nice surprise! We are really looking forward to our family vacation and spending some time together. Nicco is growing so fast we wish we could slow down the clock. Hope everyone is well and taking time to enjoy the day! Some pics from the past...

Are you Sleeping?

2009-06-16T10:09:00.002-05:00

June 16, 2009. Nicco is such a prankster, could he fit in any better? His favorite activity is to pretend he is asleep and listen as we all talk about him sleeping until he finally starts cracking up because he has fooled us. He has actually really fooled us on occasion. He loves to joke around with Chris and is always playing "monster" with something. The above picture he is feeding daddy the killer lizard, lol. As you can tell by the pictures he is always mugging for the camera. He has such a funny personality. He has missed his best friend this week who was on vacation. If he asks me to go bye-bye (translation: let's see Timothy) one more time I think I will scream, lol. It will be nice to get together at the circus tomorrow, should be fun! We went to the Zoo last week and I actually made it into a picture for a change. URGH! My diet is frustrating me because I don't want to stick to it, and I can really see the weight I have gained in the photo's. I will have to try and get back into the swing of eating right again. I have such trouble when I don't eat every couple hours and exercise :(
Hope everyone is having a great week!

Swim Time!!

2009-06-04T11:06:00.002-05:00

June 4, 2009. Nicco is loving the new pool and the discovery of the hose. I couldn't help but take the time to post some of the cute new pictures from the last couple days playing! Yes, he did manage to climb into that pool before we could get his clothes off and a swim diaper on! He has really been eating lately and getting bigger everyday, I guess like everything else, it needed to be at his own pace :) We have had a slight break with our play group because everyone is so busy with summer fun! Hope to see all our friends again real soon at Nicco's big pool party.
To my friend in Dayton, Ohio who has been adamantly searching for me on google, HELLO!!! you've been so quiet, drop me a line and say "hello"!!
Everyone enjoy the weather...

Just me & my boys..

2009-05-25T10:35:00.002-05:00

May 25, 2009. Spent the morning with the boys and wanted to share some pics I took. I can't believe how much Tony is changing, right before our eyes! We have had a great weekend. Yesterday, Christopher bought me a bike and a bike trailer for Nic to ride in. It rained as soon as we got it set up, but we can hardly wait to take it out for a spin. I have been trying very hard to lose some weight without stressing on what I eat. So far, I have lost 12lbs in about 2 weeks. Ah, only 40 more to go. My goal is to get to my weight when Christopher & I met again by age 50, lol, we'll see if I can make it! Nicco got a new pool over the weekend too! I'll post the pictures of this soon. What a hoot to watch him jump in clothes and all when he saw it! He cried his eyes out when it was time to get out. Hope everyone has enjoyed the weekend!

Sand Box!!

2009-05-19T07:34:00.002-05:00

May 19, 2009. We had a great forever family day. We decided to get Nicco his favorite, a sand box. Nicco loves dirt and can sit in the sand box forever if we let him. Our biggest problem has been getting Nicco to keep the sand in the box and NOT in his mouth! We still seem to be in that stage where everything enters our mouth accept food! Mom said she can finally tell how small Nic is by these pictures of him laying in the box. I am hoping to see some weight get put on by the next doctor appointment, as he is still at 23 lbs. We hosted our first at home play date with some of Nicco's new friends. We had a great time and the kids were really angels, they can play at my house anytime! Nicco has really started to pick up some words now that he has been involved with the play group and I have certainly enjoyed my new friends. Off to enjoy the park today, it's beautiful outside!

My Fortune Cookie Said..

2009-05-07T13:29:00.004-05:00

May 7, 2009. A week before I was to leave for Guatemala last year I had a fortune cookie with Chris. We always share our fortunes and sometimes Chris will even keep his in his pocket for good luck. My cookie said "your lucky number is seven" Christopher's cookie said "a short stranger will soon enter your life with blessings to share". Little did we know how much those fortunes would mean to us. We did not know our Embassy day when I left for Guatemala, we were still waiting for DNA to be done. When I arrived we reunited with our friends we had met on a previous trip, they gave us the best tip ever. "Call the Embassy and ask them to take you stand by" they said. Well, to cut a long story short, it took me a very long time to get through to the embassy via phone, but when I did, they scheduled me the next day, May 7th!! Both of those fortunes are now part of your scrapbook, Nicco. I'll never forget this day as long as I live. You cried the entire time at the US Embassy and everyone knew who you were. It would be the one and only time I have ever seen you cry like that, you are always so happy. Happy Anniversary today my little shortcake, you are truly our blessing!

A year in Review...

2009-05-06T13:16:00.003-05:00

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The above video was made for Nicco's first birthday. I thought today, the day before our Anniversary Embassy day I would share it with those who have not seen it. Enjoy!!

2 Years ago Today...

2009-05-05T20:04:00.003-05:00

May 5,2009. Happy Cinco De Mayo!! It was 2 years ago today that Christopher & I sat in our local Mexican restaurant discussing our options with adoption. We kept looking over information for Russia but I never felt committed to the program. I KNEW Nicco was in Guatemala and it was on this day that Christopher knew it too. I'm not sure what sends you in the right direction of where your child is, it's just something you know. We started our process with an application shortly after and it would be a year later that Nicco would come home to our family forever. Today we took Nicco for dinner at our restaurant and he enjoyed the tortillas and beans. We had an amazing night together. I can't believe you have almost been with us a year already little buddy. Sometimes it seems like you have always been here, always inside our hearts. The picture above was taken shortly after our decision, my have we changed. Hoping everyone enjoyed their Cinco De Mayo as much as we did..

1 year ago today...

2009-04-30T22:09:00.004-05:00

April 30, 2009. I had just settled into my room at the Marriott in Guatemala city. I was so excited to spend some time with my best friend Stephanie. We hadn't seen each other in so many years, and there she was holding my hand through all of this. I could hardly believe in just 2 days I would be holding Nicco forever, and was I scared! Chris was home working and pacing the floors. He may have been more nervous than I was and we both new this was going to be a long wait. I remember so many things going through my mind that night. I wondered if you would still remember me, would you still like me? And whatever would I do if you didn't? I wish I would have known it was going to be this easy. That you would be so spectacular, a happy little guy, and we would fall madly in love. Soon we will celebrate our first forever family day. We couldn't love you anymore than we do!

Enjoying the Weather!

2009-04-26T16:08:00.002-05:00

April 26, 2009. It has been so beautiful here in Saint Louis. We have been having a great time with our playgroup and our new friends. This week we spent sometime at the nearby park. Mom was able to get some much needed walking in and Nicco had a great time making friends. No surprise, the girls seem to love him where ever we go. Nicco loves to find sticks and dig them on trees. I don't think he cares much for the play centers, he is happy and content with some dirt. His favorite thing to do right now is play in a sandbox. We will be adding this to the upper deck soon. He is talking more and more and the p.a.t. aide was right, he is using two or three word sentences. I think he will be talking a lot very soon. Enjoy the pics!

Happy 1st Easter!!

2009-04-13T18:47:00.003-05:00

April 13,2009. Nicco really had a good time with everyone on his very first Easter. Grandma had her traditional Easter egg hunt, and it didn't take Nicco long to find all his eggs. He looked so dapper in his Easter outfit. It was nice to get together with family and celebrate the day together. All the kids are getting so big so fast. Our next celebration will be our 1st Forever Family day, May 7th. I can't believe it has been almost a year already!

Easter Bunny!

2009-04-05T09:02:00.002-05:00

April 5, 2009. We went to visit the Easter Bunny last Saturday. Poor Tony, he is such a good sport. Nicco really didn't need Tony there this time, he loved the bunny! We had a hard time trying to get the picture with Nicco looking at the camera. He kept looking at the Easter bunny saying "hi" with a big smile on his face. I wish you could hear what was going on in their minds.
My birthday was last Saturday as well, I am getting close to 50! Christopher gave me a card with a message every day for my Birthday week. My favorite was the one in the photo above. It say's "Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries." from Truman Capote. I love this card and couldn't have said it better.
I talked with Joey, she is awaiting her Visa and very excited to go to Australia soon. I am excited for her. She has that same sense for adventure that I had. I spent my 20's & 30's traveling with my career and moved to several states before finally settling in. In St. Louis of all places? Still surprising to me to this day. My dad always said I had Gypsy blood in me. lol. Maybe Joey does too.
Do they fish fry anywhere else in the world? We have just spent our last few Fridays meeting our family for the Friday fish fry's for lent. We finished it off with our family favorite, the Mexican fish fry in our old neighborhood. Some of the best Mexican food you will ever eat! We waited for 2 hours in the line and got there early! The line was around the building by the time we left. It is getting quite popular here. If you are in St. Louis and haven't been, you are missing it! They have full entertainment and church tours. They offer both English mass and Spanish, with 80% Hispanic parishners. I think we are going to try and baptize Nicco here in Spanish. The school is fantastic and if we lived closer this would be the place for Nicco to attend, I really like the curriculum.
Our 1 year Anniversary is fast approaching! I can hardly believe it has been a year. It is going by too fast. Nicco will be 2 soon. Somebody slow this down for me.

Enjoying the Weather..

2009-03-18T17:12:00.003-05:00

March 18, 2009. Wow, the weather has just been unbelievable lately. We have really been enjoying it. We took the kids on a nature walk over the weekend. Nicco just loves to look and explore, he really loves to be outside. I think we have seen almost all the good parks here in the last week, it has been a lot of fun.
It is almost time for our sleep center appointment. We have been logging Nicco's sleep now for a week. I can't wait to go and get some answers on his wild movement at night. His little legs are always moving. I was reading some stories on a forum the other day from parents who can't get their kids to sleep without help from them. You just wouldn't believe some of the things these people do! Their stories will really crack you up. Working with the sleep center has been the best decision we ever made. I am so glad we have such a great pediatrician who talked us into going. Nicco has been sleeping on his own since a month after he came home thanks to the clinic, and it only took 3 days to get there. I am hoping his leg movements, which he has had since birth, are just part of his growing process. I am really hoping this is not restless leg syndrome. We will pray for the best and hopefully have some answers soon.

Developing my style...

2009-03-13T14:01:00.003-05:00

March 13, 2009. Nicco went shopping at old navy with me the other day. While we were strolling the boys department he spotted these sun glasses. I never thought in a million years he would wear sun glasses. I have often seen those and thought "whose kid will wear those?". I humored him and tried them on, well, I wasn't getting those sun glasses back. I bought them and he continued to wear them everywhere all day and night! He is such the ham and is already developing his own sense of style. Nicco suave, I love you.
We have been enjoying all the wonderful weather we have been blessed with lately. We love going to the park and feeding the ducks. We love to go down the slide at the playgrounds. We have joined several playgroups in our area and have been venturing out everyday and having a good time.
Nicco is starting to talk more and more. It is all about when and if he wants to talk to you. He still responds to Spanish better than English though, especially with body parts. Today Nicco repeated his ABC's all the way through to Z and even knew when the letter Y was coming next. I was so proud of him. Getting him to talk has been a challenge even though we know he can, it must be on his terms, lol.
He has been in the new gymnastics class for 3 weeks now and can almost do the Chinese splits! He loves this class. Last week they taught him to pose when he completes his moves with arms raised in the air. It is so cute as he lands and poses and states "ta da". So proud of himself, as he should be.

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2009-03-10T08:01:00.003-05:00

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Updates on Nicco coming soon!!

What a beautiful day..

2009-02-09T18:54:00.003-06:00

February 9, 2009. It was so gorgeous today we went to the park. I can't believe the weather, it is just incredible. Nicco loves to play on all the activities at the park and it is so hard to get him to leave when it's time. He really loved the teeter totter with dad. I think he could swing from sun up to sundown. it was just a really great day.
We recently cut Nicco's hair again. I can't believe how fast his hair grows! Today, Christopher decided to gel it all back for a different look. We have decided we like it long, LOL. I think we will try to let it grow this time and see where we are. He is so cute though...
I wanted to say thank you to those who sent me their support about a recent post on Guatadopt regarding racism. I appreciate all the kind words and did not know this was a common theme with this person. Hopefully someday the world will be a better place for all to live in.

Our First Snow..

2009-02-02T16:58:00.002-06:00

February 2, 2009. Nicco has just gotten over being very sick. He had a bad virus and was running around the clock high fevers. He didn't eat much for 5 days! He wouldn't sleep unless he was on my body, just like when he came home. I could not put him down. Poor guy, we took this pic of him with his cold wash cloth on his forehead. He was just pitiful. I am so happy he is feeling better!
He finally got better just in time to see his first snow before it all melted. I had the best time taking pictures of him running and playing in the wonder of the snow. I cannot believe he is 18 months old already. The time seems to be flying now. We had planned to look at preschools when he turned 2. I don't think this will be happening anymore because I don't think I am ready! I would be so lost without him all day, even if just for a bit.

New Tooth Brush..

2009-01-07T10:19:00.003-06:00

January 7, 2009. We decided to finally let Nicco brush his teeth on his own. He has been exhibiting such a need to be independent and a "big boy" like Tony. This little one is destin for big things he has such a personality! We bought him a new toddler tooth brush, put him on the sink, and let him have at it. We were all surprised, he knew just what to do. He even brushed for a few minutes and then wanted to rinse, lol. It really is amazing how much they learn by just watching you, even when you think they aren't watching. He's now counting to 3, say's a,b,c and can recognize a fish, a monkey, a elephant, zebra and giraffe when asked. Will still only say "hola" to Diego, Dora or the Spanish teacher, lol. Everyone else gets a "hello" or as Nicco say's "ello". He will recognize an Owl in Spanish only and is quick to hold his finger to his lips and say "shhh" when asked about La Chusa, the game about the owl he learned in Spanish class. If I drill him with the owl pic he is clueless, and looks at me like what are you talking about, and then gives me the "shh",lol. I've really been so blessed to be able to stay at home with Tony & Nicco and can really see the difference with them developmentally. My heart goes out to those who do it all, it is hard. We had our Celebrate adoption photo shoot at the house yesterday. I can't wait to see my proofs. Nicco was all over the place, and taking pictures of an active toddler can be challenging. Keeping my fingers crossed.

My new Camera

2008-12-27T20:13:00.002-06:00

December 27, 2008. Nothing new today, but I had a ball using my new camera. Had to share the photo's, I am in love with the model :)

Happy Holidays!

2008-12-26T20:01:00.002-06:00

December 26, 2008. We had a fantastic Christmas this year with Nicco being home. Everyone did quite well in the gift department, and Nicco was no exception. He got a train, a bouncing pony, a zoo, a kitchen and loads of other great gifts. We had a fun time at Grandma's visiting with all the family we rarely get to see. Some got to see Nicco for the first time! I didn't need any presents this year, I had gotten the best already with Nicco coming home. I did get a new camera though, and boy, was I surprised! I got a Nikon D60 and I am loving it! It has been taking the most amazing pictures and Christopher even hooked me up with all the good lenses and goodies. Hopefully I'll be able to share some great Nicco photo's on this page. Hoping everyone had a wonderful holiday as well!

HO, HO, NO!!

2008-12-20T12:18:00.002-06:00

December 20, 2008. Well, much as I expected Nicco did not care for Santa. I thought I was going to get a really great pic. I made Tony go (he's such a good sport)and Nicco was doing great when I slid him on Santa's lap. Then he noticed I was now behind the camera waving to him. It was the greatest look as he looked up to see Santa, (who's holding me if mommy's over there?). I've never seen eyes get so big! Thankfully the photographer snapped the picture just in time before he totally freaked out. Poor little guy. She actually cut half of Tony out of the pic, but it was the best we could do. I cannot wait until Christmas and to be with the family. We are having Christmas eve at our house this year. A small gathering of family but should be fun! I just can't believe he is home. HOME, HOME, HOME..Merry Christmas to me.

Holiday Fun!

2008-12-08T15:33:00.003-06:00

December 8, 2008. We had such a wonderful Thanksgiving this year. So much to be thankful for. Nicco had a blast on the rocking horse, even sharing with cousin Timothy. My mom came in and spent the weekend with Nicco. He has grown so much since she last saw him. Unfortunately Nicco got a bad sinus infection while she was here. He was so miserable and up all night. On top of the sinus infection he is still battling the last few teeth. It seems like it is taking forever, but most are all through at least a bit. I think he will only have 2 left. I made the bad mistake of rocking him again until he was asleep while sick and now that he is feeling better he is giving me a hard time about sleeping. I think we straightened it out last night, as he is back to rocking only till drowsy and into the crib he goes. He even put himself back to sleep all night on wakings, thank god. When I stick to the plan he is back to sleep before I can even make it up the stairs. He has become such a daddy's boy and loves to share with Chris. They have so much fun together and I love to hear Nicco laugh while horse playing with him. He is really starting to talk now. His new favorite is "wow". Every time he see's something new it's "wow". LOL He say's "hello" in English and Spanish and a few other words. Still hasn't said "no" yet, which I'm surprised. LOL Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving!

More new Teeth..

2008-11-23T18:06:00.002-06:00

November 23, 2008. Well, we had another evening of waking up again last night. Today I notice 2 new teeth getting ready to pop. We almost have them all. I think after this next round we will have just 2 in the very back, top and bottom, to come in. He has done really well considering they all came up at the same time. Nicco is starting to talk a lot more now. Some things are easy to understand, some not so easy, and some very clear. He has been trying to tell me something the last 2 days and I cannot figure out what it is. It is driving me crazy, LOL. He says it to me over and over and waits for me to respond. He is starting to sound things out. He makes the T sound for Tony, the S sound for Joelle', because we call her sissy and is responding and saying beso in Spanish. His Spanish is going well, as is mine, and he will respond in both languages on several things now. He has had a growth spurt and I am excited to see where he is on the charts on Tuesday, our next Dr. appointment. Shots again, not looking forward to that! I can tell he is taller and has gained a little weight finally. We have been giving him a fruit smoothie everyday and I think this is helping. I have cut down his formula and he does eat more now. I can't believe how much he changes from day to day. I am loving every minute of this..

3rd Haircut..

2008-11-15T11:11:00.002-06:00

November 15, 2008. Nicco got his 3rd haircut yesterday. He did so much better than the last. This time we had my stylist Christy cut his hair. He had met her before and I think he was more comfortable with her. She did such a great job!! He is starting to look more like a little boy and not a baby :( We have eliminated the matting in the back of his hair by cutting off his cute little baby curls. Nicco got a ring sucker to work on during the process and was a champ. He has been in such a better mood since his teeth have come in, thank god! We are having serious issues with the crib and getting stuck in the bars. I am at a loss of what to do. They sell a high coverage mesh bumper but it will not fit our crib style. Regular crib bumpers are a total No-NO, found this out the hard way, as we have had all the kids try to climb out. Listen to the warning folks, they will go over! Spanish is going great, he loves, loves, the class, and is the star of the show. Such the ham. He now fully participates with everyone else and loves to sit with all the mommies, making all the other children really ticked off. LOL He is so affectionate and I am loving every minute of it. Have a good weekend all!

The Day After..

2008-11-01T20:32:00.003-05:00

November 1, 2008. We had so much fun on our first Halloween. It didn't take long for Nicco to get with the program. He was so cute in his Monkey suit and big brother Tony was a chick magnet. Nicco loved to walk up and say "hello" to everyone and put his candy in his pumpkin. Today we went to the park for a family photo shoot. It would have been perfect if we just had Joelle'. We got a couple cute pics, but Nicco was not feeling well with his teeth again. He has 4 that have finally popped and 4 more that are close. Nothing is working for the pain and he is miserable. Hopefully it won't take long for the others to come in. Hope everyone had a wonderful Halloween, don't eat all the candy at one time!

Boo at the Zoo..

2008-10-30T20:43:00.002-05:00

October 30, 2008. We had a great time with our little Monkey at Boo at the Zoo. Grandma came, and I actually got into a picture! Poor Nic had so many layers on he was stiff as a board, but a really good sport. His teeth are still giving him a little problem, you can see his mood in the picture above. Today was much better and I am hoping for his sake they will come through soon. Looking forward to our first trick or treat, Happy Halloween everyone!

All My Teeth..

2008-10-27T16:31:00.004-05:00

October 27, 2008. I am so tired I can hardly see straight. I was certain Nic had another ear infection. He has been up like clockwork the last 3 nights and I have been sleeping with him in the rocking chair. He has been whining and crying like crazy, so unusual for him. Today I took him to the pediatrician and found out he is not only cutting the 4 teeth we knew just came in but all the rest! He has 12 teeth right now and the rest are right there waiting to pop. Poor guy, he is miserable. The good news is we are all done in one shot. YEAH! Hopefully, they won't take long. He cut his teeth so early, getting the first at 4 months. By pickup at 9 months he already had 8. He also got the first round for flu shot today. Another next month as well as his usual 15 month shots. He just looks at the doctor every time we are there and says bye-bye to her, he can't wait to leave. Social security was a nightmare and we think we finally have things straight. We'll see...

Day at the Park..

2008-10-17T20:04:00.003-05:00

Oct 17, 2008. Today we had a great day at the park. Nicco loves to do the slide and to explore all the nature. He is becoming quite the daredevil on the swing and loves to go higher and higher. The weather is so beautiful now, just a little cool. I heard from Joelle' today. She is enjoying her time with her boyfriend, Nick, and really looking forward to visiting with him in his country. I cannot believe she is all grown up now. Hope you are feeling better from your wisdom teeth tonight Joelle'. I also got a email from Maritza, Nic's foster mom. I know how much she is missing him and I sent her some new pics. She loves how his hair is growing. LOL

I'm Not Spoiled!

2008-10-14T19:20:00.003-05:00

October 14, 2008. It seems Nicco has taken over the family television. We finally got smart and gave him his own remote so he would leave ours alone. Funny, because we don't really let the kids watch much TV. I remember his foster mom saying "He LOVES TV", yeah, no kidding. Nicco loves oreos and he loves to wear his chocolate go- tee. Check out the pics. We had parents as teacher out today and Nicco did really well. He met all his normal milestones and ranked with the 24 month old children. Not bad for 14 months. The only thing we need to work on is his language skills, but, they believe that is because he only heard Spanish his first 9 months. He is starting to show his independence now with an occasional tantrum when told "NO". But nothing like the other kids did. Thank god. But, I know it is still early. He is such a joy to be around and loves everybody.

Fun Weekend

2008-10-07T11:41:00.002-05:00

Oct 7, 2008. Nicco went to the butterfly house this weekend and really loved it! He spent quite awhile exploring all the plants and butterflies. We had a great time celebrating big brother Tony's birthday last week at the pizza place. We rode all the rides and really enjoyed the space ship. Tony has lent his Thomas the train to Nicco and he seems to love it so far. He also seems very interested in all the star wars items in our house. Glad to know we can pass all these toys on once again :) His favorite toys are still pots and pans and fake food. There is a kitchen in our future says Santa. We have parents as teachers coming this week to evaluate Nicco. I am excited to get involved in this program. We also start our Spanish mommy & me class this month. I can hardly wait!

The Next Tommy Lee..

2008-09-25T12:20:00.003-05:00

September 25, 2008. Nicco has been doing really well and is off the antibiotics yet again. The doctor says 1 more ear infection this year and it is tubes. Here I go again. Since he has come home he has drummed on anything he can get a different sound out of. I swear this must be something in his blood, he just loves it. I must admit his rhythm is impressive. He loves to dance and is finally getting to a point where he is adding new moves. The next Tommy Lee or the next Salsa king, not sure which one. He gets so excited to watch dancing with the stars with me, LOL. We went to the Guatfest here in St.Louis and had a great time. Nicco was the youngest we saw so I am sure he will get more out of this next year when he is older to run and play with the kids. We had been worried about his size as he had dropped into the 20th percentile since being home and has had so many challenges with eating, picky. We were surprised to see him tower over some of the 2 year olds, as he is so small next to most his age in the states. Mommy calls him shortcake, I could just eat him up. He continues to have such a pleasant nature and rarely cries even when sick. I think we have new teeth coming in..

End of the Month Fix..

2008-08-31T15:57:00.003-05:00

August 31, 2008. Where did the month go? I cannot believe how fast time is flying. Nicco is walking all over the place now and some times picks up the pace to a run. I have been having a ball keeping up with him, or at least trying to. I am out cold by 8 every night!Some pics from the month as we have fun with him. I love the shirt.."these aren't the parents I ordered" I feel for you guy, it's rough being king. Best wishes to all..

Nicco Walks!!

2008-08-14T17:44:00.004-05:00

August 14, 2008. Well, isn't it just the way. The first time Chris & I are gone Nic decides to walk! Grandma was here and was she excited that she got the first real steps. Apparently, he just stood up and walked across the floor to her. He has been walking the rest of the day now, he should be good and tired tonight! Chris is due home tonight and was really sad he missed this as well. He is so funny because he gets so excited that he is walking he starts this dance and falls. He is so proud of his accomplishment. He is eating good finally now that I am blending all the "grown ups" food instead of baby food. He won't even touch the graduates food let alone regular baby food. We finally received our G-884 back. I was disappointed to have all the documents from this file already as I was hoping for more pics of the birthmom. More props to my fantastic agency because I had all these already, but I was happy to have copies. Hope everyone is having a great day!

The baby who Doesn't Cry..

2008-08-10T21:22:00.002-05:00

August 10, 2008. There is something to be said about the baby who doesn't cry unless he is tired or hurt. You can never tell they are sick! He finally stopped coughing at night but something just didn't feel right. He has been really clingy and has trained me to wear him on my hip now. I took him to the Doc just to be sure and sure enough, double ear infection. Nic has this thing with his ears, he always has his fingers in there when he is tired and pulls his hair. So picking at his ears would be nothing new here. This has to be the best natured baby I have ever seen. I am scared to see what kind of teenager we are going to deal with! Anyway, we are on antibiotic now and he is venturing off to play again. Moms back is killing her and I am feeling my age, but, I am Happy.

Chuck E Cheese!

2008-08-06T09:04:00.003-05:00

August 6, 2008. Nicco spent his birthday day at Chuck E Cheese with the family. We had a great time and Nicco really loves the big mouse! He danced and clapped and rode all the rides. We had a chocolate cupcake celebration and he was happy to wear his birthday party hat again. We cannot believe how much he is growing and changing so quickly. I am loving his curly locks in the back. We are still not over the new cold/cough, but it seems better. We are finally taking steps on our own now that we have been practicing with the walking wings. The funniest new thing, he has begun to grow a peach fuzz mustache, he is so cute.

Happy 1st Birthday Nicco!!!

2008-07-31T08:51:00.003-05:00

July 31, 2008. Happy Birthday Nicco!! We had a big birthday party over the weekend and Nicco had a great time. We celebrated with a pinata and our very own Birthday cake. Nicco got lots of great presents including his very own ride in remote control boat! We have more monkey's they we can count (his favorite) and we really loved the balloons! Today we will all go with Grandma to Chuck E Cheese and play some more. Everyone had a great time and Nicco is getting so big. He did all his new "tricks", he now gets on his knees and hops like the bunny while singing hop, hop, hop. He also does a very entertaining cow, drives the cars with a vroom, and when you call his name says,what? LOL My favorite is he has started to give me kisses without asking now. He is so affectionate, just like Tony.
Nicco had his first haircut. That didn't go well, and we think we liked it better long. Everyone thinks he is a girl though. I think it is those massive lashes. He looks cute though and it was getting in his eyes. We left the back untouched.
Nicco road the carousal at the Chesterfield mall that day as well. He wasn't really sure if he liked it or not. He seemed confused. LOL
He has had a little cold again and has been waking several times a night. Poor guy. Nothing serious though, just stuffy and miserable. Everything is going great and we are sooo in love with him! Now if I could just get people to stop calling him my grandbaby I'd be all set!
HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY NICCO!!!!!!

Ain't he sweet?

2008-07-23T07:04:00.002-05:00

July 23, 2008. Early morning with Nicco as he is back to getting up at 6. I don't know how he does it with the little power naps he takes. I still have not gotten a nap in his crib longer than 15 minutes yet. Thank god he has slept through the night easily since he has been home. I'd be one tired mommy, especially at my age! So glad my Doc told me to stop rocking him to sleep like that, we'd still be playing that game. I rock him now until he is restless or drowsy and lay him down and off he goes. Sometimes he will cry a little, but has never cried longer than 5 minutes and off to sleep. To think I would have kept holding him all night long or sleeping with him. It is so amazing how they train you, if you let them. So happy to hear my friends have an out today! Kim, it's been a long time coming and we wish you good luck!

Almost Party Time!

2008-07-21T18:04:00.002-05:00

July 21, 2008. 10 days until Nicco's first Birthday, I can hardly believe it! It's going by way to fast! We have a big huge birthday/welcome home party planned this weekend. He is already to blow out the candles as Grandma has taught him how. The family is taking great pleasure out of his new tricks everyday. He now says Gamma (grandma), Bra Bra (brother) and several words clearly. He is still not walking, getting better with the cruising and standing on his own. He will talk earlier than most, but I think he will walk later. He just doesn't want to on his own. He will start his Montessori school in 6 months. A bilingual school filled with other Spanish speaking children. I know this will be great for him, but I am so sad to get to this point. As I said, it is all going so fast this time. Before we know it he will be all grow up like our others. Loving every minute of the day with him...

Nicco the daredevil!

2008-07-12T08:25:00.003-05:00

July 12, 2008. Nicco is coming along well with his swim lessons, he loves the water. The teacher has been amazed and frightened by him, he has NO fear. While all the other kids are crying he is proving he is part fish. His vocabulary is coming along and he now says my mama when referring to me and will tell you what the monkey says, his favorite animal. He still will not walk on his own but does dance. He loves music especially anything Latin. We have done many a fall down trying to cut the rug! The hands and legs get going out of control. We have been so blessed we just can't believe it!

Happy 4th of July!

2008-07-03T19:19:00.002-05:00

July 3, 2008. Happy fourth of July to everyone. I couldn't think of a more appropriate photo than this one of Nic on Embassy day. You can see what kind of mood he was in! We are hanging home this 4th and celebrating low key. Nic has been doing fantastic in his swim lessons, he loves, loves, the water. He is now saying Mama, dada, Bra (brother), yeah, up and ball. When you ask him if he is happy he smiles ear to ear and claps his hands. Too cute! He is walking all over the place with his walking toy, pushing it along, but will not step out without holding on still. But, it is any day now. I still cannot believe he is home, that he is almost a year old already and I do not know how I could have lived without him. I am so in love. Happy 4th everyone!

Finally catching up!

2008-06-19T19:49:00.004-05:00

June 19, 2008. Well it has been quite a month for us! Nicco has adjusted so well and is sleeping through the night finally! (thank you Dr. Ferber) He now loves to be in his crib and talk with his curious George stuffed animal. He is still just cruising, trying hard to walk but still afraid to let go. He loves to hang with the boys every night and has started his swim classes with dad (or as Nicco calls him, DA) He now say's mama, DA and Bra (brother) and I believe he talks spanish to Barney, lol, his favorite! He gets cuter everyday. We cannot believe it is almost his 1st birthday!

We would like to thank everyone who has written and followed along for their support. We would also like to thank our wonderful agency, Little Miracles, and everyone associated with them in Guatemala. Big hugs to our coordinator Lisa, you have went above and beyond your job and we consider you a dear friend, thank you:) To the best foster mom I could have asked for, mucho gracias, How can we ever thank you? It is because of you he has such a wonderful loving disposition. You are right, he is our angel. You are in our hearts forever!

Ain't he sweet?

2008-06-10T18:42:00.003-05:00

June 10, 2008. Nicco has been doing fabulous and I have been busy taking lots of new pictures! We went on our first vacation to Myrtle Beach with Grandma. We loved the pool and had tons of fun on the beach. He is trying so hard to walk and is really cruising along now. I think he is getting cuter everyday!

New Pics!!

2008-05-28T09:37:00.001-05:00

Announcing!!!

2008-05-25T20:24:00.002-05:00

NICCO IS HOME!!!!

2008-05-23T19:50:00.002-05:00

May 23, 2008. Well, it has been sometime since I have posted on our blog. I had major computer problems again and during that time Nicco has come home. It was a fantastic trip and we even got to see some of our friends from the last visit as well. I flew in May 1, 2008 and waited for my "pink" from the embassy to arrive. I received pink for Friday May 9th but received a great tip from my friend Cheri (thank you) to try standby at the embassy. I called on Tuesday (11 tries before reaching someone) and was told yes, I could come in on Wednesday as a stand by. I was so excited! But even better was the fortune cookie I saved before I left that said my lucky number was seven! Embassy day May 7th, 2008 and it was my lucky day. Nicco came home pretty sick with an ear infection and has had me running non stop. He is doing much better now and is back to his happy go lucky self. Never a baby with a better temperment than him. Some pictures from the great voyage home!

PGN OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

2008-04-03T10:24:00.002-05:00

April 3, 2008. We got the news last Wednesday March 26, 2008 we are out of PGN. My birthday was Friday and what a gift to receive! Happy Birthday to me and to Nicco on his 8 months already!! What a handsome guy he is becoming!!! I have been so behind on blogging and on everything as we have had several challenges the past few months. God gives you what you can handle I suppose. Here's hoping we see you soon big boy!

What a day!!

2008-03-05T21:24:00.003-06:00

March 5, 2008. Last night I had a trip to the hospital after suffering chest pains. I spent the last 24 hours being poked and proded, but luckily everything appeared to be fine. Poor Chris had to frantically come home from Chicago in the middle of the night to make sure everything was alright and to play nurse for me. Thank God I have him there when I need him. We received new pictures of Nicco and his full head of hair, but I have not been able to download them yet. I will post when I get a chance.

PGN Quiet

2008-02-24T12:18:00.002-06:00

February 24, 2008. Hope everyone had a great Valentine's day filled with Love. I wanted to say "thankyou" to my husband for making it all about me and the special thoughts that mean so much to me. So far all has been quiet on the PGN front. No kick outs (that we know of) and hopefully everything is moving along smoothly. We have been working on Nicco's scrapbook all week and his photo's are everywhere! These are some of our favorites. I have been staying busy and going to the gym with Chris, I have lost 16 lbs. so far. Chris loves to work out and has been taking me with him everyday religously, my motivator! I can hardly wait to get to my pre-baby weight again, LOL! This weekend we will have our 7th birthday party for Nic. 7 months already, I can't believe it! For us everything has worked out perfectly timewise and has given us the ability to assess what it is important in life.

PGN!

2008-02-14T14:02:00.003-06:00

February 14, 2008. Happy Valentine's day to all. Today we got the call that we have entered PGN. Hard telling how long we have to go, but we are finally in the home stretch. Things have been moving quickly with the CA registered so we will sit back and hope for the best. I am thinking of making a visit to see my little man soon. Hope everyone has a wonderful day :)

Moving Along!

2008-02-12T13:59:00.000-06:00

February 12, 2008. Little man I am missing you so much today. I keep your face plastered everywhere I look because it keeps a fire in my heart. Yesterday we got news that we have been registered with the Central Authority and should enter PGN Wednesday, Joelle's Birthday! What a great present, but I am so sad today without you both. I just have not been myself lately and have been trying to stay busy. I need a good dose of sunshine, maybe a visit, who knows. Just one of those days. Thank you to my "Guat families", you know who you all are, for being so supportive to me with everything. And thankyou for letting me vent when necessary. Everything for a reason, right??

Happy Belated 6 months!!!

2008-02-03T18:35:00.000-06:00

February 3, 2008. Hey Nick! I can't wait until you come home!! You look so cute in the pictures.

Love,
Tony

Ain't He Sweet!!

2008-01-26T10:35:00.000-06:00

January 26, 2008. Anthony hasn't been here to do his posting, so we'll be expecting that Wednesday. Yesterday we received new pics of Nicco. Isn't he beautiful? I can't handle those eyes, they melt me. He still has that same fire in them and his hair is growing in finally! He should be sporting Christopher's spike do in no time! Almost 6 months old, where is the time going? I have thought about you everyday baby boy and hope I will see you soon..

News to Use..

2008-01-21T10:50:00.001-06:00

January 21, 2008. Well, we got news that we are caught in the hague limbo. Nic has not entered PGN yet and we will need to go to the central authority first, whatever that means. It's ok, we still know he is in great hands and just waiting for the day to come home. Chris took some off time and we spent the night snuggling on the sofa and talking. Things are settling down in our world and we seem to have a better perspective of what we can expect for the future. We have been through it all together and not much will knock us off track. Tony has been wanting to post, so our next entry will be given by Master Anthony. Enjoy!

Happy New Year!

2008-01-01T21:20:00.000-06:00

January 1, 2008. Hoping everyone had a fantastic New Year! I received new pics of Nic celebrating for Christmas, isn't he just adorable? He is growing so fast and gets cuter everyday! It has been hectic in the Borsa household and I am hoping everything will be back to normal soon. I am drained. I still haven't had the chance to show Tony Nicco's video yet, he's so cute when he laughs. Hopefully we will get to it this weekend and start the new year right. Good night all :)

Tony is Famous!

2007-12-21T20:03:00.000-06:00

December 21, 2007. Our article final went to print. You can read it here:
http://x.adelantesi.com/news/story.php?ID=654

PA Today!

2007-12-21T17:18:00.000-06:00

December 21, 2007. Don't things just happen when you least expect them? I opened my phone email today to discover we had PA (pre-approval). My computer crashed 2 days ago and I have been out of commission. I am still not sure if I have lost all my documents or not. Geek Squad to the rescue! I am using my laptop but I am having a hard time typing with it. It makes it almost impossible to do anything. Tony was sooo excited to hear we had PA. Merry Christmas to all and thanks for all the support everyone has lent.

Just the Two of Us..

2007-12-12T20:46:00.000-06:00

December 12, 2007. I have returned from my visit a few days early. Poor Nic was sick when I left, my first experience with the baby vomiting. Breaking me in fast, Nic. I couldn't have asked for a better baby, Mr. Happy. Even when he got ill he was good and hardly cried or fussed. I met the best couple, Genevieve & Chris. They were visiting their daughter Tilly, tiny Tilly :) She is beautiful and they are the nicest couple in the world. They sure helped me get through a hard time and I thank them for that. It was lonely coming home and not talking with you guys. My Chris never made the trip and it was his loss I'm afraid. Nic is growing so fast and you can never get that back. Enjoy the pics :)

Nicco Likes Mango!

2007-12-06T17:29:00.000-06:00

December 6, 2007. I can't believe it is Thursday already. Today we spent the afternoon by the pool with Terry, Pete & Jackson. Jackson is going home at 6 months! He is adorable, and it was nice to have a friendly couple to talk with. Nicco had his first taste of fruit he liked today, Mango. He had a taste of bananas the other day but did not like it. He reminded me of Tony so much as his little tongue went in and out trying to taste it all. He is such a good baby and still hardly ever cries. He is VERY picky about food though. He is definately bonding with me, as he will go to anyone but will not take his eyes off momma. I cannot believe he says momma, but he does clearly, so cute. He also does not believe in sleep. I guess nothing is perfect, but he is as close as it gets. Tony, you will love this snuggle bunny!

Go Badgers!

2007-12-06T07:00:00.000-06:00

December 6, 2007. Good morning from Guatemala! Last night Nic got dressed in his Wisconsin Badgers best, courtesy of dad, and went for a walk of the Marriott with Mom. We had a good time but couldn't find any other babies. There is no one down here right now. Last night he finally slept for 3 hour periods at a time. He wakes, fusses, I pat his belly, he falls asleeep again. Routine..were getting it. He is also sleeping with me though!He has still been very fussy with eating even after I went to the grocery store and prepared the special mix from the foster mom.(cinnamon sticks boiled and sugar) I am hoping things will go better today as he gets more hungry. Tomorrow dad comes down and we can hardly wait! Nic is already to go to the pool!

Guatemala baby!!!

2007-12-05T08:17:00.000-06:00

December 5, 2007. Well I made it, all by myself. Christopher will be here Friday and I can hardly wait. My plane was a little late and after the usual airport craziness in Guate I found my ride and was off to the hotel. Nicco was there within minutes and boy had he grown! He looks just like a little man. Just adorable. The best part about him is his personality. He smiles all the time and laughs out loud so cute. I bet we spent half the night laughing out loud at each other. I wonder what he finds so funny about me? lol
Everything went really well until I tried to feed him. He hasn't been happy with the bottle situation all night.I do not know what I am doing wrong, but he drinks a bit and then gets really mad. He only slept an hour at a time since I have been here. He is NO crybaby though. And when he needs attention he lowly whines mamamama...so cute. I think I just have something wrong and he is trying to tell me what it is. I feel so relaxed with him and head over heals in love. This is so much sweeter as you age and mellow. I will post new pics when he sleeps (if he sleeps). The Marriott is wonderful even with the contruction, no noise, decorated for xmas and a new baby room open. Wish me luck with the rest of the day...

Happy Birthday baby!

2007-12-01T08:00:00.000-06:00

December 1, 2007. Happy 4th month Birthday Nicco. Only a few more days & I will be there to celebrate with you. I cannot wait to hold & kiss you! As always Tony had a wonderful celebration counting the days until you come home. He was so happy to see new pics of you and can't wait to see everything I bring home this visit trip. Happy Birthday Sweetie!!

Not So Chubby Bunny..

2007-11-28T08:43:00.000-06:00

November 28, 2007. We received updated medicals yesterday on Nicco. He is so very healthy and growing everyday. He weighs 12 lbs. which actually makes him pretty normal and not so chubby after all. We think it is the layering of clothing making him look so thick. LOL Note worthy giggle, Nicco's med report says "child saying any words?" answer: AJU', my mom says maybe he's sneezing? LOL Smiling not laughing yet and not sleeping through the night :( He is also still eating 8-9 bottles of formula a day! I am from the old school of early cereal, this baby is hungry! I listened to the grandma's instead of the doc's with Joey and she was on cereal at a little over a month at night. She immediately also slept all the way through, so I am glad I listened. Ah, my two cents..
Less than 1 week until Nicco kisses!!!

Oh Happy Day!

2007-11-26T09:12:00.001-06:00

November 26, 2007. You ever wake up and just know it is going to be a good day? I woke up this morning with a fantastic call from the agency. More pictures! And is he getting cute or what ? I just love picture day. No news on our case but everyone is moving along quickly that I talk with. I am hopeful our PA may be on time after all. Hoping for good news next week in Guatemala. Be sure to check out my new addition in the right Column, top page, click each link under happy holidays from the boys for a good laugh. Caution, it does take a bit to load, but trust me..it's worth it!!

Needing a little Motivation..

2007-11-24T20:33:00.001-06:00

November 24, 2007. Well, I worked on Nic's room a little more today. I still haven't really started the painting. I have been trying to repair the walls from those animal stickers I had up when it was Anthony's room. What a mess! I am almost finished and it has come out quite nice. I will soon begin the base coat, a cream color, and then Jim (our Neighbor) is so kindly going to help me do the baby blue stripes. I picked up the glider and stool I ordered this week, it looks gorgeous! The dark espresso wood looks so good with the baby blue. I also picked up the little giraffe bedding set I ordered. My girlfriend Steph got a kick out of what a "psycho" I am because the blue satin was a shade off in color from the samples. It has really bugged me, and I am to much of a perfectionist. I don't think anyone would pay it any attention, but I had it in my mind a certain way..lol. Oh well, the velvet was exactly the right color and Tony said he was so jealous because it felt like heaven. He says Nic will sleep forever..ah, yeah, OK! This is Tony's first baby can you tell?? LOL I will post some pics as I progress. Going to the adoption service at the Cathedral Basilica tomorrow..so much to be Thankful for. Goodnight.

Something to be Thankful for..

2007-11-20T21:14:00.000-06:00

November 20, 2007. Almost turkey day and we have been so blessed to be thankful for so many things this year. I cannot believe we will be seeing our little Nicco in just a little more than a week. I can't wait to get my hands on him and kiss him a hundred times! I am also dying for some new pictures. I can see that look already..oh no, the crazy lady with the camera again! I took 400 pictures in 4 days. Can you imagine what I will come back with in a week? We are thankful we have been given this little miracle, our son, and that we will someday soon all be a family. Happy Thanksgiving all!!

A long Weekend

2007-11-11T22:59:00.000-06:00

October 11, 2007. Friday I finally received my copy of the DNA results in the mail. I was so excited to see the picture of Nicco and his BM, until I looked at it. I immediately broke down in tears and cried all weekend. She had such a look of misery on her face. I could feel her pain like it was happening to me. This is an amazing journey, filled with many emotions. I had so much guilt on Friday and no matter how much anyone tells me how this is meant to be, I still feel terrible for her. I am happy I will have this pic for Nicco. I know this may ease his mind in knowing he came to us out of love. I pray it does. I will share his happy little face with you..

New News!

2007-11-07T21:56:00.000-06:00

November 7, 2007. Great news today as we heard several Guatemalan news papers announced the hague would postpone until April 30, 2008. While we have nothing official, this is a huge step in bringing Nicco home. I'm not much for counting chickens before they hatch, but I do believe, as I have since the beginning we will get through this process. I have my bags packed already, (can you believe this?) and I am ready for my visit trip. Should be interesting, it's been awhile for me:)
No news on anything Nicco. Lisa..I need an update! lol
It should be slow from here on out. We should enter the final court around the middle of December and we can only hope for a speedy out, could be March could be July. I'm posting a picture of my other goof ball tonight because he is just so funny waiting for his brother. Nicco is so lucky. Goodnight all.

Colom Elected President

2007-11-05T09:11:00.000-06:00

November 5, 2007. I'm not really sure what this means to our adoption, but, Guatemala now has a new president Alvaro Colom. It sounds as if the elections went off without any major issues, which is great news! We are hoping this will now move along the talks to add in a grandfather clause for our adoption. I will be off to visit soon, Nicco's luggage is starting to get ridiculous! I have also started on the nursery finally. I thought it would take us forever to get the decals off the wall. Guess what? I bought more..lol I found some really cool circles I thought I would put above the closet with each letter of his name on them. I think they should look good on the striped walls. We shall see...
No new word on Nicco court process updates, PA, PGN, won't expect anything until around the end of November. Knock on wood, we have been right on time so far :)

Happy 3rd Month Nicco!

2007-10-30T19:59:00.000-05:00

October 30,2007. Happy Birthday to you my sweet baby! Number 3 already, I cannot believe you are growing up so fast. Tony celebrated again with a special number 3 birthday cake, cream cheese! He can hardly wait until you get here. To celebrate we watched the video of our visit trip for the first time. Tony is still convinced you look just like him! Tony (who had a full head of spiked hair when born) is anxiously waiting for your hair to grow. He swears it is much thicker in the new pictures :) Everyone got a kick out of me almost dropping you nicco (not quite) and your expression of, somebody get me an experienced mommy! I promise to have a good grip on you next visit! DNA results anyday...

What's in a name?

2007-10-28T17:19:00.000-05:00

October 28, 2007. No news on Nicco lately, but I have had several people ask about his name. Nicco, pronounced nee-co, which is Italian & Greek, is a variant of Nicholas. It means victory of the people, mythological Nike was Greek goddess of victory and root origin for Nicholas. Anyone who knows Chris or has googled him knows why this is important. We came to Nicco because although I loved the name Nic, I (Kelly)did not like Nicholas. Cristiano pronounced Chris-tay-ah-no, which is Spanish & Italian, means follower of Christ. The definition says people with this name tend to be very inspired,intuitive and creative. Their aim is to improve the world and can be quite altruistic. They strive to see the "big picture" and achieve their dreams. Again, if you know Chris, you understand why this is important. I (Kelly) chose this name because it was a variant of Christopher and both Spanish & Italian. A mix of both of us if you will. It's meaning is also everything I admire in Chris and it just made sense to me.

Monthly dose of Sunshine

2007-10-22T16:10:00.000-05:00

October 22, 2007. Well there I was in the middle of pysical therapy and I hear this ding, I have mail. Can you imagine how happy I was to see Nicco's smiling face? I cannot believe how much he has changed in 5 weeks! I can see all those bottles are starting to catch up with him, he likes to eat! It really is funny how you are more in love every time you see them. So here's to my chubby bunny, I cannot wait to hold you!

Not much to Update

2007-10-15T21:52:00.000-05:00

October 15, 2007. Not much to update yet. We are waiting for that DNA and to move on to another part of the process. I have come to be very calm now and feel things will fall where they are meant to be. Although I have always believed this, sometimes it is hard to follow. I've stopped following those groups so much and realized I need to have faith in who I hired. I am already so ahead of the game in my experiences with them. I've heard people talk recently about using hotel staff to translate for their Foster Mom. Taking cabs from that airport or shuttles and then the horror stories of no answers from their Representatives on their children. Alot of unprofessional people. I also found myself scared stiff to go to Guatemala after reading some of the stories. I grew up in a suburb outside Detroit. I now live in St. Louis. Guatemala City wasn't much different. A little common sense about things and your fine. Do you see the guns? Yep, only difference as far as I could tell. I'd rather see them. I wonder how many people miss out on their child due to this fear. Anyway, moral of the story for me is to calm down and let it take it's course and keep the drama at bay. I'll add a pic of Nicco just to see his face today :) Goodnight.

Please take the time to view

2007-10-14T08:22:00.000-05:00

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Charge it!!!!!!!

2007-10-11T18:12:00.001-05:00

October 11, 2007. I do not think I have ever been happier to look at my credit card statement as I was today! There it was in the middle of all my shopping, a charge to Labcorp for DNA. I am so happy we are moving along. I looked at some options for travel today, I have the unused tickets from our change last visit to use still. I also purchased some vouchers for free nights at the Marriott recently from a charity auction, I love a deal :) I am going to hate to fly that spirit airlines flight going to timbuck too and back. I was so spoiled with Continental and arriving so early in the day. But, I have nothing better to do for a day and I am saving money. More money for baby hats!! I can just see Nic's face again, "isn't that the hat lady again?" Hopefully he is used to them by now. I will anxiously post when I hear DNA has been taken for sure.

DNA

2007-10-10T18:14:00.000-05:00

October 10, 2007. We were so happy and surprised to receive our receipt for DNA today! It seems we are finally moving along. Today I have been so excited again because I know I will be able to see Nicco again soon! I couldn't help but get a little nervous today as I thought about Nic's mom seeing him again. I am so worried she will change her mind and I don't even think I could be upset if she did. He is so beautiful, and such a gift. Although we are full of joy, I know her heart is full of grief. We had another sign of "fate" with the DNA, but I will keep this one to myself. Everything happens for a reason, sometimes so hard to remember.

Great News Finally!!!!!!

2007-10-09T18:30:00.000-05:00

October 9, 2007. We received great news today that our DNA should be taking place soon. I am back to having faith that we are moving in the system even if it is a slow process. I am hoping again we will still be able to visit with Nicco in December. I cannot wait to see him again and rub his little head! Everybody keep your fingers crossed for DNA next week!!

Same Ol'

2007-10-09T11:34:00.000-05:00

October 9, 2007. Nothing new to report I am afraid. I heard from a lot of people today..a lot. Nobody seems to be moving anywhere in this adoption nightmare and depending on who your agency is, they have had no luck getting answers. I spoke with one friend who is a month longer in process than us and received a terrible reply from our agency today. My heart goes out to her as this is an emotional thing for anyone going through this. I hope we are never sent an email like that. It is a shame that everything becomes so politically motivated and not about these children finding a good home. I pray this system will find it's peace and that Nicco will be allowed to come home to us. Today I find myself wondering what he is doing and what he looks like. I know he has probably changed so much. I would give just about anything to hold him for a minute. I hope Maritza has been using those disposable cameras I left her. I can hardly wait to see those pics! I'll update when I hear something...

I'm depressed today..

2007-10-04T10:49:00.000-05:00

October 4, 2007. No DNA still and I am losing any hope of seeing our son in December like we originally planned. I do not understand all the politics of things. We have friends 3 weeks behind us in process and they have already been allowed their first overnight visit with their son, they will make there second in December. In hindsight I guess these are all questions I should have asked before starting the process. I assumed policies would be the same across the board. I am trying not to pay any attention to the negative press and everything about the suspension. In honesty I do not think we would have a problem waiting if we thought we could continue a relationship with Nic, but not having the answers to questions and not knowing we are moving along in the system is making things unbearable. I am worried since this new law has passed and unfinished cases would need to start over that we have been set aside to "wait & see". I am sure the thought would be, what's the point in getting DNA and family court if we need to start over. Ugh! I am frustrated. I know Nic is in great care with Maritza and I do not worry about him, but I feel like I am being robbed of his baby moments. Moments I thought I would get to see. Anyway...I had to vent, I don't feel any better though. I miss U Nic.

Current Events, Please lend a Hand.

2007-10-02T10:19:00.000-05:00

Dear Friends,
Guatemalan President Oscar Berger has announced plans to suspend all intercountry adoption with American families on January 1 2008. The Joint Council on International Children’s Services strongly opposes such a suspension and asks for your support in their efforts to ensure that all children retain the right to permanency through Intercountry Adoption.
President Berger’s plans also call for the suspension of adoptions currently in-process. Such a suspension would be extremely detrimental to the children referred to adoptive parents. If President Berger’s plan is actually implemented, up to 5,000 will unnecessarily remain in foster care or orphanages indefinitely.
This situation represents a pending crisis for the adoptive families who have lovingly chosen to provide permanency, safety and love to a child in need and most importantly a crisis for 5,000 children of Guatemala.
What can you do? Make six simple phone calls and one email.

1. Call your U.S. Senator.
• You can find your Senators’ phone numbers at www.senate.gov
• Ask to speak with the Legislative Director or Chief of Staff

2. Call your second U.S. Senator.

3. Call your representative to the U.S. House of Representative.
• You can find your representative at www.house.gov
• Ask to speak with the Legislative Director or Chief of Staff

4. Call or fax UNICEF Headquarter
• Ask to speak with Ann Veneman, Executive Director
• Their number is 212-326-7000
• Their fax number is 212-326-7758

5. Call or fax UNICEF Guatemala
• Ask to speak with Manuel Manrique
• Their number is 011-502-2327-6373
• Their fax number is 011-502-2327.6366
Please note that calls and faxes to Guatemala are international calls

6. Send and email supporting Intercountry Adoption to guatemala5000@jcics.org
• Write briefly or at length
• Joint Council will use the cumulative email petition in our advocacy for Intercountry Adoption
When should you call? Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday (October 9th, 10th 11th)
• For maximum affect, we are asking you to make these calls within a 72 hour window!

What should you say or write to member of the U.S. Congress? Speak from your heart and give them the following information.
• Inform them that you are calling regarding Guatemala 5000

• Ask them to sign the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute (CCAI) sponsored letter to President Oscar Berger

• Ask them to sign the Joint Council on International Children’s Services sponsored letter to UNICEF

• Inform them that the Guatemalan government has announced that all intercountry adoptions with the U.S. will be suspended on January 1 2008.

• Inform them that President Berger’s announcement also indicated that there will be no ‘grandfathering’ of adoptions already in process.

• Inform them that if children referred to families are not allowed to be adopted, they will languish in institutions or foster care.

• Ask that their office get involved and sign the sponsored letters to the President of Guatemala and UNICEF. These letters ask that all adoptions in-process as of January 1 2008 be allowed to process to completion under the existing notorial laws.

Sample Statement
Hello,
We are calling/writing on behalf of the Guatemala 5000 Initiative. We, as your constituents, are asking that the Senator/Congressperson add their signature to two letters. First, the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute sponsored letter to Guatemalan President Oscar Berger. Second, the Joint Council on International Children’s Services sponsored letter to UNICEF.
As you may be aware, the Guatemalan government has announced that all intercountry adoptions with the U.S. will be suspended on January 1 2008. Their announcement also indicated that there will be no ‘grandfathering’ of adoptions already in process. If children referred to families are not allowed to be adopted, they will languish in institutions or foster care. Your office must get involved and sign the sponsored letters to the President of Guatemala and UNICEF. These letters ask that all adoptions in-process as of January 1 2008 be allowed to process to completion under the existing notorial laws.
Sincerely,

Can you explain the problem behind the pending crisis? Here is some additional information…

• Guatemalan President Oscar Berger has announced plans to effectively stop all adoptions into the United States including those children who have already been referred to adoptive parents

• Over 5,000 children have been referred

• The birthparents for these children have already relinquished their parental rights. As a result, they currently have no family and the Berger suspension will result in these children having no prospect for a permanent, safe and loving family

• The government of Guatemala currently does not have the finances or facilities to even provide housing for these 5,000 children

Birthday Bash!

2007-09-30T09:19:00.000-05:00

September 30, 2007. Once again the birthday celebration was a great success as we celebrated not only Nic turning 2 months old but Anthony turning 9! Once again Nicco was here in spirit and we look forward to being able to see him hopefully for Christmas. Some pics to enjoy from the boys....

Have You Signed?

2007-09-28T19:29:00.000-05:00

September 28, 2007. Just a brief post this Friday night before I am off to celebrate both my boy's birthdays. Today Nic is 2 months old, and Tony will be 9! It is cake for us tonight!!
You may or may not be aware of all the current issues with adoptions in Guatemala. There is a chance that adoptions in this country may cease January 1, 2008. I am confident this will not happen and if it does it will be very short term. There is a online petition regarding this and I would like to ask you to take the time to sign. It is an important issue, not just for us, but for all the children who will be left in limbo without a family. The link is below:
http://www.petitiononline.com/foafoa1/petition.html

Thank you!

Tic, Toc

2007-09-27T09:31:00.000-05:00

September 27, 2007. Well here we are waiting again. This seems to be a reoccurring theme. At this date we still have no DNA test started. I am frustrated for the process to get moving, (Lisa, please hear my pleas!) Nic will be 2 months old tomorrow. We are both ready to return to Guatemala as soon as possible for the next visit! Once we have our DNA results we may return and keep Nic with us while we are there visiting. This is a very brief explanation of the process:

Prepare the Dossier: These are all the documents pertaining to the adoption, basically your whole life in a neat little package. This includes the 171H approval by the INS for adoption.

Referral of baby: You receive a picture and brief information and medical on a baby ready for adoption. (scroll archives for ours)

Ministry of External Relations: This is where your documents are checked to make sure they have the appropriate seals. Then they are translated.

Then I'm not really sure what happens because we seem to be doing this process differently.

But these steps all need to happen regardless of what order they come in.

Family Court Investigation: A social worker is assigned and a home study of the birth mother/foster mother are conducted. Then the birth mother signs her second consent for adoption. Time frame 2-4 months.

First Court Action: The court reviews the social worker report and in most cases makes a recommendation for the approval of adoption.

DNA: The US embassy mandates a DNA test be done on the birth mother & baby. Results are taking around 6 weeks.

PGN: This office is equivalent to our Attorney General's office. Everything is reviewed here and inspected to make sure it is legal. Once PGN feels everything is perfect you can move on. (time frame: they work at there own pace)

Final Court Approval: The adoption decree is drawn up and the birth mother is notified the adoption in now complete. See then signs her final consent.

Registrario Civil: The adoption is inscribed in the civil registry where the baby's birth was recorded. A request for a new birth certificate with our last name is made.

Guatemalan Immigration/Passport Office: All documents are presented for the passport. Baby is fingerprinted.

US Embassy: The attorney presents the adoption file & Passport at the consulate for the exit visa.

VISA Appointment: The baby is taken for a health clearance, photo is taken for visa. Wait for Visa, GO HOME!!!

As you can see it is quite the process, one that will not happen overnight. Nic will likely be almost a year old before he finally comes home for good. Everything depends on how smoothly we flow through the system. Wish us luck...

Welcome Family & Friends!!

2007-09-24T18:28:00.000-05:00

September 24, 2007. Welcome to all our family & friends who are now joining us on our journey. Can you believe we have managed to keep this a secret? I am posting a new poll tonight, look on the right column, please vote! Were you shocked or what when you opened the announcement? I hope everyone can understand we needed to keep this to ourselves for awhile before announcing our adoption plans. So now that you have gotten over that initial shock, Is he cute or what??? We hope that you will continue to pop in now and then, and to pray that our process goes smoothly. We hope to have him home and in our arms as soon as possible, but we may be looking as far as June next year. My next post will explain the process for those who are interested. Please be sure to go to the bottom of the page and read the archives. That is where our journey begins and there are alot of pictures. Also be sure to click on the arrow on our picture at the bottom to watch our video. Again, we are very pleased to be able to share with you, our family & friends, our amazing journey.

More Weird Events..

2007-09-21T15:16:00.000-05:00

September 21,2007. Well, here I am one week later trying to regroup and ready to schedule my next visit trip. Can you get over how adorable he is? I laugh out loud everytime I see his little face, the personality will just kill ya. So I have more weird events to consider on my trip to fate. Nicky had this cute little outfit with Duckies when he came to visit Saturday. I recognized this outfit, it was the first I purchased from Once Upon a Child, the second hand store. I assumed at the time Chris had given this to the foster mom the previous night when we sent her home loaded with stuff. When I returned this week I went into his closest to see what I had remaining and if I thought it would fit. I couldn't believe, there was that outfit hanging there! The foster mom had the same exact outfit on him that I had purchased! Above is Nicky sleeping in his ducky outfit with his Mayan hat mommy bought him. So fashionable!

How Cute am I?

2007-09-21T15:11:00.000-05:00

I am not happy today..

2007-09-16T08:07:00.000-05:00

September 16, 2007. 7:00a.m. here in Guatemala City, and I am not happy today. I know the next time we see our nicco he will have grown and changed in so many ways. I can leave in peace though knowing how loved and cared for he is by his foster mom. We sat and cried together yesterday and spoke of how happy we are to be doing this all together. She will miss him so when he is able to come home, but she was happy he would come home to both of us. She wished us a speedy homecoming, one so our hearts could be complete with him at home, and two, so her heart would not break so much. She is an incredible lady, fostering not just Nic but another 2 month old boy as well. She cried as she told me of just losing her last 2, one also a boy named Wilson. Nic has his sleep pattern mixed up and sleeps all day and is up all night. I told her to wake him up! She laughed at me like I was kidding, she wouldn't possibly think of it, she is to sweet. He has really gained the weight at almost 10lbs. and she says he loves to eat. He also loved it when I rubbed his head after a bottle. We have to get this on camera, he rolls his eyes backward and smirks like he is in heaven. If I stop he opens one eye to see what I'm doing (with attitude I might add). Today we will play dress-up with all the outfits I bought him for our upcoming adoption notices. I am sure he will not be happy about it!lOl More hats!! Did you check out that handmade mayan hat I got him?? Tony, I have not found your size yet. Well, time to wake Chris for breakfast and get on with our day. He was so lonesome last night and sad he could not bring Tony. He is really hoping for his mom to join us on a trip. Pack your bags Pat!

Sleeping Beauty..

2007-09-15T21:44:00.000-05:00

Mom click on pic to enlarge

2007-09-15T09:03:00.000-05:00

Good Morning Everyone!

2007-09-15T08:05:00.000-05:00

September 15, 2007. It is 7:00 a.m. here in Guatemala City and I have finally had a good nights sleep. I woke this morning with the excitement of seeing Nic again today. I keep looking at all our pictures. Our flights went easy (after we finally made it) and Chris was such a sport about running to catch the plane. He wanted to say something to me, but bit his tongue. lol When we arrived in Guatemala we were interviewed on camera regarding the new improvements to the airport, unless you have been here you can't imagine what it is like coming out of the airport. I believe it was the closest either of us will get to the red carpet experience. As you walk out there are people lined on both sides with signs for loved ones, adoptions, business, and everyone is shouting. Then there is the camera and microphone. We thought we were Brad Pitt & Angelina for a minute. lol Chris laughed I didn't miss a beat from my old days on the microphone and answered the questions like they were interviewing Vanna White. lol We were nervous for a few minutes because our scheduled pick up was not there. The traffic is like New York, and when she finally arrived she was wonderful. She helped us check-in (the Marriott is gorgeous) and gave us some time to explore before bringing Nicco over. HAVE WE TOLD YOU HOW WONDERFUL HE IS? (better get used to it) While he is no where near as hairy(head) as the other babies, I do believe he was cuter. And he had them all beat on the personality factor. A delightful mix of Chris & Tony attitude and will hold his own with them just fine. Tony he may even boss YOU around! Chris said, like with Tony "I was instantly in love" he was such the excited father and even said he can't wait to help (HUH??). I love him. I think we really need another girl in the mix to even things out though. lol Maybe we are becoming Brad & Angie. lol I will close this morning with this thought. May everyone who reads this be allowed to experience the love and joy in our hearts today for themselves at least once in their lifetimes.

The Best Feeling in the World!

2007-09-14T21:45:00.000-05:00

September 14, 2007. I am having difficulties posting tonight but will try again in the morning. What a day! Is he something or what? I do not think I have seen a more alert and expressive baby. He has so much character! We cannot get over how you instantly know he belongs to you. He gave us attitude like "what took you so long to get here?" The foster mom say's he is very demanding and he loves to eat. He is getting so big. Chris & I described his personality like fire, you can see it burning in his eyes. Stronged will, Like a true Borsa. Tony, he is going to keep you on your toes, I hope you are ready! Goodnight from Guatemala...

The Stork is Coming..

2007-09-14T16:05:00.000-05:00

September 14, 2007. Hola! We have made it to the Marriott and are currently waiting to see Nicky for the first time. He will be here any minute!! We almost missed our flight ( Kelly had to have perfect picture hair) They were paging us as we made it through security! We feel very safe and have our new friend Waleska to help us out. We will try to post pictures as soon as possible, be patient I am new at this. We are both so excited right now, I think we might be restling to hold him first! Tony and Joelle' you are here with us in spirit and we will call home as soon as possible. Here we go!!!!!!!

Ask and you shall receive :)

2007-09-05T20:24:00.000-05:00

September 5, 2007. We have a birth certificate! We will be traveling next week and I can hardly wait to get my hands on this little guy!!! I received an email around 7:00 tonight that the attorney has the amended birth certificate and we are a go for POA. Tony is so excited to see more pics of Nicco soon. One more week and away we go!!!!!!!!

And We're Waitin'

2007-09-04T10:45:00.000-05:00

September 4, 2007. We are scheduled for our first visit September 14th-17th. I am so excited I can hardly stand it! Of course there had to be an issue...I received a call from the agency that the attorney had to apply for an ammended birth certificate. He expected to have that back by last week. It still is not back. No one is sure what is wrong, I have been told a typo, however, POA cannot be signed until we have it. We are all hoping this certificate makes it back before we are scheduled to leave, otherwise, we have to change everything. I am getting nervouse because things are moving slow, much slower than I had hoped. I know if we are not to a certain process in the adoption we could get shut out. I hear DNA is taking 2 months. Pray for a speedy birth certificate :)

Cupcakes & Candle

2007-08-29T21:18:00.000-05:00

August 29, 2007. Tonight's post by Christopher:

This evening we celebrated Nicky's 1 month birthday with the guest list consisting of master of ceremonies "Tony B" Mommy Kelly, Otis, Ruby, Chet and of course myself. Though Nicky was not here physically he was in our hearts and topics of conversation. Perhaps the highlight of the evening was while going through pictures of "the birthday party" Tony shouted out, "That's my brother from another mother!" After several minutes of deep belly laughs we decided that the picture above captured the moment perfectly. Today represented another significant point in our journey, we booked our tickets to Guatemala!

Happy 1 month Nicco!!

2007-08-28T22:40:00.000-05:00

August 28, 2007. Happy 1 month today Nicco! We should be scheduling our visit trip tomorrow. I can not say I am not nervous with everything that is going on there. It really is crazy, day to day. We are trying to go around the 14th, after elections, but the agency is pushing for us to go faster. Chris would have to come in just for the day. I really want to travel to sign POA because I want to see Nicco, even if it is only for an afternoon. I will post again when I get a definite.

Welcome to the world Nicco!

2007-08-23T13:11:00.000-05:00

August 22, 2007. Welcome to the world our beautiful son!

What a day! Well, we started out very upset last night when we received very blurry photo's of our son. We discussed things and sent an email to the agency stating we could not commit unless we could see some clear photo's. To my surprise we received them this afternoon!! Isn't he cute?? We were instantly in love!!
So for all you who follow fate and know some things are just meant to be, Nicco came to us as Wilson Alexander. Alexander was supposed to be my daughters name because I thought she was a boy! I called my stomach Alex the whole 9 months! Her middle name is now Alexandra. OK, Coincidence, I'll buy that. Now as I looked over the paperwork they sent I notice the birth father's name. I thought I would hit the floor in shock when I realized it was the same first and last name of my great, great grandfather. Ok, Chris say's this is a coincidence again. I say out of all the billions of people in the world they have the same name? I say FATE, sealed with a kiss for me:)

And So We Wait PT.2...

2007-08-19T13:29:00.000-05:00

August 19, 2007. Well, I guess I don't even have to say how disappointed I am with this week. I thought for sure that referral was coming. I feel like I am driving myself insane. I just could not be anymore glued to my email and phone. I thought for sure we would make it to Guatemala before things got much worse there to sign the POA. I don't think that is going to happen. The election is September 9, it is already becoming crazy with all the murders, Ireland suspended their adoptions the other day. I am praying we get through this.

Waiting to see you..

2007-08-11T11:53:00.000-05:00

August 11, 2007. I heard from the agency today. They have really been all over it this week and we know we are next in line. I think we have found you, Nicky. They said it is their policy to not give referrals until they have dossier in hands. That was suppose to happen Friday, I am hoping we should at least hear something Monday. I will overnight the dossier to the agency so we can see you as soon as possible. I can hardly wait!! I am so glad we didn't send in on our own, everyone has been waiting 3-4 weeks by mail. Courier is taking 3-5 days, worth the money and peace of mind to me. I was so afraid everything would be lost because they will not except fedex anymore. Tony is sad because he will not be here when we see you, but I will make sure to call him right away. Hoping my next post will be all about you....